It's a delicate balance between the "Let Go and Let God," and taking action that is required so we don't sit idly by. But when we are out of balance, when we are trying to control the situation, we won't have peace of mind about it. Things won't go well, it will be an uphill battle, the doors will appear to close, no matter how hard we try. I believe this was the case with this dating service stint. That's why it was riddled with dead end first dates. It wasn't the right venue, the right time...only God knows why. Only when I accepted that it wasn't right for me, did I feel at peace.